Yesterday my sister Kathleen, a reporter for the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, won the coveted and prestigious Pulitzer Prize for reporting ( http://www.jsonline.com/news/milwaukee/120091754.html). It was a triumph on many levels and today when we talked, the conversation turned to the power of validation. Early in her reporting career, she was told she didn’t have the chops to be a reporter. It was a comment that stayed with her. I remember some of her early struggles to get a toe-hold in this competitive field, all of which made her award more tender and meaningful to me. We laughed about how it only took her 20 years to be an overnight success.
While the award is wonderful and hopefully opens doors for Kathleen, she is the same sister I’ve always known. We joked about that as well. She was the prototypical bohemian college student who wore her hair in cornrows and shopped at Ragstock on State Street in Madison, Wisconsin. I was the preppy overachiever who joined all the clubs. Yet she was determined (we might have called it stubborn back in the day), smart and sassy then and is now.
But there is something about getting the professional validation that the person knew was there all along. Suddenly people pay attention and as Kathleen said to me, “They listen now.”
I ain’t no Pulitzer Prize winner to be sure but I get “validation” in a way I didn’t anticipate from writing this blog and working (albeit slowly) on my book. None of the stories I’ve told about myself are revelations to me. I feel like I’ve told these same yarns for years to different people in different ways at different times. Compiled together they have a power that they didn’t have separately and spoken stories. “I love reading your blog,” or “This must be cathartic for you,” or “I never knew you felt that way” or “Do you think you need therapy?” — are all variations of comments I’ve received and appreciated.
What I’ve learned is that there is a power in compilation, in written synthesis, in telling personal truths that are essentially, variations on the same personal truths that everyone thinks about, feels or chooses not to think about. It’s more enjoyable than I might have thought and the little blog posts here and there motivate me to continue on in what is the somewhat laborious process of taking life’s story and turning it into readable literary arc.
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Congrats to your sister, I am a big fan of Milwaukee and the Journal-Sentinel, and after hearing via wordpress that you “liked” one of my blog posts, I am a big fan of you and your blog now, too. Thanks for letting me know you are here, Anne — I look forward to reading more, both from your “overnight success” sister and from you!
Beth — it’s nice to have comraderie among bloggers. Thank you for your comment and support.
Annie,
I just want you to know I am following your posts with interest and affection. I enjoy the thought that you are relating the same yarns you’ve been telling for years. It does make a difference to write them down, especially when time has given you have a little perspective. The art is in putting the words down on paper. Must be in your bloodlines.
xoxo
pk
Paul — thank you for the support. The public writing journey is well, a little bit public and I very much appreciate any and all support!
Hi Anne:
I loved your comment about overnight success! “We laughed about how it only took her 20 years to be an overnight success.” That is so true. Look at Mark Zuckerberg (Facebook guy). It took him about 10 years too.
Congratulations to your sister!
Laura
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Thanks Laura. I told my Pulitzer Prize winning sister she could freely use that line — it made me feel like I was contributing something to her road tour!
this is a really wonderful accomplishment!!!! we celebrate w u. bless.
Never know with the Bohemian girls. Kudos to your sister!
You never realize that your sister is talented until she wins a major award. LOL.
Maybe we need to pay closer attention to each other!
Nice post, Anne.
Congrats to your sis….hope all is well.
Thanks Apple. All good. How are you handling those 2 chillin? Shanna now is out to match you.
Thanks for the shout-out Anne. Of course, anyone who reads Anne’s blog can determine who the clever one in our family is 🙂